social elites who actively do rape children.

One even became the president.

socializing is easy as long as you avoid leftist idiots who spend all their time being hateful bigots who are shouting about how it’s the right a that is hateful bigots.

I would not encourage that charged approach, I know some are very dismissive but yet that attitude will have net negative output.

the issue is their ‘way’ is wholesome and isn’t based on self-righteous rage and self-importance,

No they are very few, we need more of them on community levels, and before you jump “be one then” I would have surely tried if I had resources.

Honestly, I am not sure how we can deal with that “enemy” thing, As of now, distancing from the online communities is one of the few measures one can take. But even on that I am not sure how much it works.

oh and even if you are leftist, and you are critical of leftistm or sympathic to non-leftists… well then you deserve to suffer and be in pain.

I have experienced this one too, and it’s disheartening.

it’s just all masked misandry where their rage at the social elites is projected onto the working class and younger people.

I mean I kind of get it, social elites are so well protected and out of reach that angst people attack anybody who appears like them in their closest proximity.

Anyway chin up we still have much more individual control over life than we think, Socializing is hard even more in developed countries and I don’t know your background to suggest that, but try therapy or counseling if not financially troubled, try finding some sports or gym community too it helps, don’t be hopeless there are still some people who are helpful and not hostile with misdirect anger. cheers!

Thanks for putting it in words, people from the left at core want to help but they attack anyone who is in close proximity to them and appear to be the part of the statues queue, like " if not privileged why privileged shaped"

The whole situation becomes like:

“hi, I have problems with my job…”

“But you are a man, you are working for a multi-billion dollar company founded by men, who are part of oppression and putting the world in a dangerous place…”

“But I am a server at McDonald…”

“Is anything factually wrong with what I said… No right, see you are part of the problem”

The above example is over simplification but that’s how many of the conversations have felt when I tried to explain my position.

I thought of sharing my experience but people here were already shouting “you are lying or exaggerating” to anybody who shared their experience opposing the narrative, So I didn’t bother, I reach out to some communities when I feel down or hopeless but don’t expect any support,I know I am not entitled to help but gaslighting that your suffering doesn’t matter or are not real sometime hurts, I’m just trying to find ways to deal with them alone.